Inform here your 'sh /script/sysinfo'. I think you have misperception about memory usage.
A. Kloxo-MR: 6.5.1.a-2013060601
B. OS: CentOS release 6.4 (Final) i686
C. Apps:
1. MySQL: mariadb-5.5.31-1.el6.i686
2. PHP: php54-5.4.16-1.ius.el6.i686
3. Httpd: httpd-2.2.24-1.el6.i686
4. Lighttpd: --uninstalled--
5. Nginx: --uninstalled--
6. Qmail: qmail-toaster-1.03-1.3.26.mr.el6.i686
- with: courier-imap-toaster-4.1.2-1.3.14.mr.el6.i686
7. Dns: bind-9.9.2-3.P2.el6.i686
D. Php-type (for Httpd/proxy): php-fpm_event
E. Memory:
total used free shared buffers cached
Mem: 3584 991 2592 0 0 0
-/+ buffers/cache: 991 2592
Swap: 0 0 0
So 1G used on a system that has no real sites. I am setting up a production vps and am learning - worried that in use that server memory will be consumed.
I need about 2G for media server.